How to completely change your personality?
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Changing personality is not very easy to accomplish although it has the least hard work to do. Then why many people fail to change themselves for the better? It’s simply because often people don’t have a Vision. We will breakdown the whole concept of personality development and learn how we have mistaken the common ideologies which are thrown upon us by society and how that eventually affects our personality in the long run. How does the environment play a big role in your personality? What are the common Myths regarding personality? All these questions will be answered by the end of this article and we guarantee you that after reading this till the end you will have a very clear vision about your personality and you will definitely be able to change your personality on your own.
Now, let’s begin.
3 Common myths regarding your personality
1. Personality is fixed:
Since our childhood, it has been stuck into our mind that certain people have a certain type of personality, and no matter what it cannot be changed. If a quiet introverted guy suddenly acts very friendly with everyone you will notice that many people will tell him that he is acting like someone he is not, but at that same time from that act of his, he might be able to make new friends which he never imagined before his act.
2. Personality comes from the past:
Many people experience certain events in their childhood which leaves a huge impression on their life and that eventually contributes to their personality growth. Of course, this can have a huge impact on the lives of every individual but it is not completely impossible to change their personality against that experience.
3. Personality must be discovered:
This has to be clear that your personality is not fixed. Therefore there is no point in discovering your personality. Many young generation people are all lost in finding themselves. They are lost in thoughts which has no significance in this world. They are often found questioning every action of themselves, “ should I do this ?”, “If I do this will this be like me?”, “Am I going against my personality if I do this ?”. If you find something which has to be done, then just do it no matter what even if you think it is against your personality. Just do it and you will see that
your personality was always flexible, it was just your ignorance that was making it rigid.
What is the real meaning of ‘Personality’?
Now, read each and every line very carefully. While you are reading just make this very clear that this is the only definition of personality.
The process in which a man chooses a path that helps him find the purpose of his life, which eventually makes him suffer for a worthwhile cause such that he reaches his goal. This whole process is the only way through which a man develops his personality.
Therefore, when you give a deadline to your goal, this gives you a process and this eventually helps you to build your personality.
Let be your personality, your inspirations, your motivation, or your confidence, all be the byproducts of your Decisions you make in your life.
4 factors that affect your personality
1. Past Trauma:
This is the most powerful factor which can affect one’s personality for the rest of their life. Recovering from this can depend upon the magnitude of that impact on that individual. Although this can be difficult, still this can’t be impossible.
Number one thing a person must do is find a team. This team must be an encouraging team that helps them feel more powerful when they are around them. This simple step will help them come out of their past and see the future.
Every individual who has been through such a past must learn that every experience brings a lot of things to learn. It is up to us if we want to implement those lessons to make our lives better or to make it worse.
Trauma doesn’t happen to us, it happens for us.
2. Identity Narrative:
This process helps you reprogram your brain such that you will understand that your past is fiction and your future is your new life. All you have to do is visualize your future for 5 mins every day. Imagine all those things you want in your life. If you want to become rich then imagine yourself living a life that every rich people live. Once you make this a habit you will automatically start seeing your past as fiction.
3. Power of Subconscious Mind:
This has to be programmed into the mind that willpower isn’t enough, physical changes are required in our environment to bring a characteristic change in our personality. The work habits we build in our life will have a direct impact on our personal behavior which will eventually change our personality. For example, if you keep your surroundings clean then you will find yourself surrounded by positive-minded people, and vice versa. This happens because our work habits develop our subconscious mind. Therefore, if we program our subconscious mind to become a positive-minded person then we will definitely change our personality in a positive matter.
4. Environment:
This point may be similar to point no. 3, but it is not the same. This point is the beginning of all the great things one can manifest in their life, from changing their personality to achieving huge success.
If you want to manifest great things in your life then it is compulsory to have control over your environment or your environment will control you. Now, even after reading this complete article if you find that you are still confused about where to begin then don’t worry, start from here, start with changing your environment. Change your environment according to your will, make everything in this world move according to you, and once you have mastered this you will definitely meet a new person within you.
Conclusion:
Every individual’s journey is about growing as a human being and ultimately reaching the Divine or God. This is the biggest karma one has to do to become successful in their life. Therefore, stop worrying about changing your personality and instead find your purpose and start working on that process. You will eventually find a completely different individual within you, which you always wanted to be. Good Luck.
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